[Read] Woman accuses her husband of sleeping with his nieces and househelp

A man, name not disclosed cried out over the accusations of him sleeping with his nieces and Housemaid.

The story was share to Gossiprate by a socialist.

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Man Narrates his ordeal"

I met my wife in 2010 she was calm, doesn’t talk much but easily get angry and i also noticed that she wasn’t a good cook but was good in other things (chores), it didn’t stopped me from loving her, i didn’t tell any of my people even though I have sisters that are good cook but i decided to take her to catering school to learn how to cook which she went for lessons to practice.

We got married in 2013 , she got pregnant that same month and she became so lazy that i will go to work and come back to meet the house very messy with everything all over the place, dirty dishes and no dinner yet, and i have to take over cleaning and cook dinner for us.

She claimed she could no longer clean the house, that she is tired and need to rest, then i decided to get a house help for her, a hard working 14-year-old girl, very obedient but to my wife she is evil , every single day i comes back from work , the house girl is always in tears, my wife will beat the hell out of her to the extent of giving her black eye, if I confront her she will start accusing me of sleeping with the girl which is not true, I can never stoop so low to sleep with an underage girl. I have nieces of similar ages, and i wouldn’t want another person to be harmful to my nieces.

 

He further stated:

One evening i came back from work, only to find the girl in a pool of blood, that my wife hit her with a wooden chair and she had a deep cut on her head, i got angry with my wife, and even her reasons didn’t make sense to me, all because she asked the poor girl to warmed up the baby milk and she mistakenly left it for too long , the milk was too hot to give to the crying baby so she got angry at her and hit her . I have told my wife she shouldn’t act like that no matter what and here comes again, she said you are sleeping with her and that’s why u are taking sides with her , we had a heated argument that i have left the house to cool down , I came back after 5 hours and the next morning i sent for my brother to take the girl back to her parents.

When our first child was 8 months, we found out she was 2 months pregnant, she cried that the baby is too small, that she can’t keep the pregnancy, i begged her to keep the baby that everything will be alright.

And luckily to us it came out twins a girl and a boy, it wasn’t easy for us and i have to go to work while she stays a home with the kids all alone. We discussed on bringing in a househelp a 15-year-old boy, and the same thing repeated itself again, she was maltreating him the same way she did to the girl that left, and boy ran away to his people.

I came back, saw her crying that the boy slapped her and run away, i was angry for what he did, even swear will deal with him when caught, but the other way i knew that the boy did it for self defence.

After the boy left i said no more  househelp, she will have to manage alone because i couldn’t help her anymore, but my house became dirty that i wouldn’t even want to bring in visitors because of the state of the house, dirty plates can stay in the sink for 3 - 4 days , she has a washing machine but she couldn’t bother to use for laundry, we eat take away every single night, i come back home at 9pm due to the nature of my job and traffic, at that time i’m already exhausted but i have to start cleaning the house. 

I got pissed with her that she didn’t wash the eldest daughter school uniform and all of her 5 sets of uniforms were dirty and she had no clean one to put on in the morning , i have to wash them at 10pm and she saw nothing wrong with everything.

When the twins were a year older, she told me she is tired of staying at home that she wanted to go to work , i told her to wait at least for them to be a year and 6 months to start school before she can pursue her career but she disagreed with me, so i gave her money to start up a business of her own choice.

We had an agreement that she should be close down her shop at 7pm so she could be home with the kids and take care of the house, she was ok and i also got an elderly woman as a househelp, she doesn’t lives with us, she comes at 6 am and closes at 8pm and i also brought 2 of my nieces 18 and 11-year-old to the house.

But ever since she started the business, she has never got home on time, sometimes she stays until 10pm, when i talk her closing time from her business, she gets angry and start raining insults on me, we haven’t made love in a long time, she always complained of being tired, her stomach is paining her etc.

So i have decided to leave her alone and not bother her about sex anymore, and it doesn’t care too.

It happened that i came back home to find my niece with a deep cut and blood on her eyebrows and my wife did it just because the she broke a plate so she hits the girl with the broken plate. Firstly all i had to do was to rush her to the hospital and she had 5 stitches and we went back home. I tried talking sense with her but she wasn’t even interested, all she could do was shouting at me, accused me of sleeping with both my nieces and the elderly house help. I was so angry that i have beat her badly which i regretted and apologised later to her.

That was the first time i hit my hands on her. Something I vowed not to do to the woman i love but she pushed me so bad and I have been remorseful but she refuse to forgive me .

4 months now we don’t talk to each other, we don’t sleep in the same room, she comes back home anytime she pleases.

I just don’t know what to do anymore, i love my wife and children but her attitudes isn’t right.

I want to file a divorce, but when i think about my children i just don’t feel like going ahead with the divorce. I’m also human and can’t stop living like this.

Please my brothers and sisters help me with your advices!

Thank you.

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